I've already approached him like a million times to ask why he has been distant with me but now I'm realising it's his work load but he doesn't want to admit it's a lot for him. Like, she thought that serving would remedy her of any doubts or testimony issues. Maybe that is why I am grouchy and can't cheer when my husband becomes a director for yet another board at the hospital.
I know that she's even getting her stuff ready to go on her mission. It is helpful to know that there are others who are experiencing the same emotions and to hear about your coping methods and advice. He's been in the medical field for over 16yrs and I didn't have a problem when we were dating 6yrs ago but since he proposed 2yrs ago I've been feeling very unsecured.
We planned the funeral around his work and call schedule. I tiptoed into my current relationship with a medical student dating two years, med school is almost overand one of the first things I brought up when he was pursuing me and he pursued me HARD was that I would not be the kind of person that would date a doctor. You can't force her to change, nor should you if you could. Give yourself some credit for being attracted to the good side of the Force. I'm pointing this out because I don't know her and couldn't tell you what to expect.
If you do not have a lot of time together, make every second count. Hey Guys- I as well married a female Doc. I believe when you die, you die, and you live on in memories and hearts. We play doctor - then she leaves. Good to see that I'm not alone. There will be sacrifices but I am hopeful. But it does make it hard for me to develop and strengthen our relationship. Love does a lot. I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x.
