That is a hard truth. I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off. He doesn't like to complain or talk about work too much when we're together so it really helps to hear from another resident just how crazy it is.
He isn't in school and doesn't have much idea about what it is like to be in my shoes. Now I don't get offended when he falls asleep when I come over - in fact, he puts his head in my lap and I run my hands through his hair until he falls asleep. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. I would never change my decision to marry him. Here are my thoughts as someone who grew up with a non-mormon father and as someone who married a non-mormon girl.
I thought about those deeply spiritual moments I had had in life and how special they were to me. Don't get her hopes up too much - in return ask her to do something to research your views. It helps put my small, first world problems into perspective. I have just found this blog recently that makes me know that I am not alone. Wow i am dating a dr and love him so much but i wonder if love is enough. There are such things as perfect loving families though. Why would you behave any different now. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. By those standards, I was a failure, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had ambitious real goals that required a lot of time and effort.
I am so happy about 'starting' our life together in a few months, but I feel like I am totally setting myself up for disappointment. I eventually found out that she did not pass the exams and have requested that I don't contact her again. If she is as real deal as you say she is, she believes this also. He wanted our kids exposed to Christianity for intellectual reasons and likes the community. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. I have been happily married to a non-mormon for 20 years.