And after dating a few months we both knew we wanted to get married. So you made a wise decision. Hi Op, I wouldn't worry about the lack of constant contact too much.
I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. I want him to commit more to his family and himself. I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment. Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. Thank you for this web site blog-I have enjoyed reading these similiar experiences of ladies married to physicians or soon to be physicians. I've already approached him like a million times to ask why he has been distant with me but now I'm realising it's his work load but he doesn't want to admit it's a lot for him. If it's the former I'm more inclined to think he's being self-centered in your relationship. While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. She wants the captain of a ship who can direct all aspects of a relationship, including spiritual direction.
Of course I feel slighted at times, but I check myself and remember that my SO is doing his best given all his demands. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program. Life is suddenly wonderful, and you catch yourself smiling, humming, and happy all the time. He told me that there is nothing in the world that is more gratifying. How would that motivate you to work out every day to get a girl. More success stories All success stories Hide success stories. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. There was a decrease in pay but an increase in our quality of life already. My fiance is a surgeon. Vh65, your marriage is a black swan.
She's willing to talk about anything I find directly on LDS. And he is reading one of my favorite Buddhist-based books, in an effort to understand my beliefs. He's now in his 3rd year of a 4 year residency program and is hoping to do a 2 year fellowship next. Log in or sign up in seconds.