Ending sooner rather than later is much easier and less painful for everybody. If I had one thing to add, mixed race marriages are quite similar. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful. When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow. First, let's start with a short musical introduction on what it's like to be a True Believing Mormon dude. The thing is, even though no one else trusted my decision, I prayed about it daily for our entire relationship. I wouldn't just give up, but be wary. It is a decision he has to come to on his own - hopefully all sped up when he looks around at his current dating pool and eating way too much McDonalds. I'm surprised you don't seem to know how long his residency will last. Finally, it is a very tight-knit community and despite efforts to insulate you from conversion-minded missionaries, you will be exposed to a lot of people that think, like this woman does, that atheists are without a moral compass.
Should one belief system or lack of one take priority and why. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. I learned how truly very Mormon I really am, to the deepest part of my soul. No easy answers here. Mormons are very strict about avoiding sex outside of marriage. And a happy ChristmaChannuKwanzaKah to everyone.
Am constantly trying to be the understanding girlfriend and try to remain humble towards him at all times but It hurts a lot. However, I'm going to show him your post tonight and hopefully he will agree that it's worth a try. I'll tell her that we are strictly friends for now on. Life is not perfect. I have been married to a doctor for 29 years now and think I have felt or experienced many of the worries expressed. This is right for me and for us. Mormon chicks have way damaged views on human intimacy. It would put him in a position of feeling less and being looked down on.
He was also a poor communicator and felt he didn't need to voice certain things, like 'I love you'. Going back in time, it was never encouraged for people to marry outside their faith and this covered most christian religions in the United States. We still joke about the latter.
