Neither of our children ever considered medicine as a career after seeing how much their dad missed out on. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. The woman gets fidgety after three days on vacation. Other lazy Mormon girls turn feminist, many thousands of them. You have to be so strong to be on your own so much. Oh this is a great set of questions. Life will chuck all sorts of bouncers at you. I don't know why the system allows this type of treatment Not only do the residents feel like they "should" be giving every single bit of their energy, intellect, passion, soul to their residency programs, but they are told by their program directors, attendings and everyone else around them that they "must". If you can't do that, realizing that your partner may never come around to your side of things, you are not ready to marry this person. Reading has become difficult, because I have trouble focusing.
I knew a couple in my last ward who got married in their mid 20's. Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. When you try to explain to them why the church would not publish said info on their own website they get mad at you and tell you you're ignorant. I was skeptical whether this would work with Mormon girlsв sheltered girls who would never step inside a dance club or be wooed by pickup artists. No one understands our lifestyle or how difficult it can be, not even my best friend and or family members no matter how hard they try to. That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here. How else could you go through 8 years of schooling and 3 years of residency without losing your mind. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table. All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings.
She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. For an example of what this means - say you get hurt in a car accident. I married someone that wasn't of my faith and it worked great.
I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. If you don't want to give up, then don't. A friend of ours who is going to grad school at Duke started complaining to me about how he had to work while Dr. This means no swearing, loud talking, or making offensive jokes. And no one has the right to judge you for your decision. He was gone by 6: I was left to manage the house, the finances, the kids' schedules and what little time was left over for my own interests. So I am at my dating prime.