The church is very important to her. Do you have any knowlege of the bible. I could never put up with the crap he has to put up with but he could never put up with the loneliness I have to put up with Awww this makes me sooo sad. I, too, am the wife of a doctor dermatology resident. Right now, my husband is in his third and final year of an extremely draining and stressful fellowship. Going back in time, it was never encouraged for people to marry outside their faith and this covered most christian religions in the United States. So I've been dating my boyfriend for more than a year. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program.
I don't think I could let that happen. He learned that I didn't pick up on ambiguity and that I took it personally when he didn't show consideration for me during the times that it was possible to. Word to the wise, wait a day or two. Mormonism has a lay clergy, so everyone serves in the Church. My father told him it's never too late to leave whether we are married with kids or just engaged.
Mormonism is a lot more controlling and has a lot more downsides. If you have children how will they be raised. You must either really love blue balls, or else she is not a real deal Mormon girl. It seems like you havent had enough time to get to know him, and honestly you wont for a while. My next serious boyfriend was raised Methodist but considered himself non-denominational Christian and people would comment on that instead of his character.
Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. You are too young to deal with this. I love him so much, but it's torture spending so much time without him. It sounds like you have found a good one. Other lazy Mormon girls turn feminist, many thousands of them.